Ever feel like people hurt you, don’t appreciate you or take advantage of your kindness? That’s how I have felt for many years… I have wondered why? Why me?
Why is people always mean to me?
Is something wrong with me? I am convinced not all can be wrong it must be me?
And then it hit me ” people can only treat you the way YOU let them”
I let people walk all over me? I comfort them in their bad days but sit alone in my bad days.
I am scared to stand up for my self, in case they dislike me or I hurt them?
I don’t speak my needs.
I always break my own heart to give the pieces to fix their hearts.
I try to see good in people even though I should not!
I am only needed when they need me! The rest of the time I am like dirt on the doormat. Or maybe I have been a doormat they can wipe their feet on.
But no more! Enough even if it means I have no one expect my own little family. That’s what I have to do! Because I am done, pretending like I don’t get hurt I am human too i have feelings.
It’s scary, but I will start to say NO! To say i will not put up with this! I will cut people out that are toxic for me! That make advantage of my kindness!
I will always choose kindness, but I will no longer choose to let people use to or treat me bad..
This is just the start…..
I will take you with me step by step…
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